Enrichment · Life Skills

The paperwork,
one call at a time.

After someone dies, the family member doing the paperwork faces dozens of calls, each wanting a certified copy and a reference number. This keeps them in one place: what to do in the first days, who to tell, the estate and tax steps, and a log of every organization with the date, the reference and where it stands.

Start a recordWhat you get

The estate record

The worked example is made up: an executor three weeks after a parent’s death, with Social Security told, two replies outstanding and the credit bureaus still to contact. Saved on this device only.

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What you get

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What you finish with
A record per person with the date of death, your role, the will, certified copies and veteran status; 19 steps in three groups (the first days, key notifications, estate and taxes); a log of every organization with kind, date, reference and status. Flags Social Security not told, a veteran’s VA benefits not asked about, few certified copies and organizations still to contact; counts closed, waiting and to contact.
Who it is for
The spouse, adult child, executor or friend handling the paperwork after a death. Combines the bereavement checklist and the estate contact notification checklist into one record.
Format
Browser checklist and log with a saved record per person. Prints the record, a summary or a blank copy; downloads a spreadsheet (.csv) of every step and contact; exports and imports a file to share with a sibling or the estate’s lawyer.
Access
Free. No account, no sign-in and nothing to install. Everything you type stays in this browser; nothing is sent to Caveat.
Where it lives
The Life Skills space in Caveat Enrichment.
Support
Questions about access, an order or a correction: team@caveatacademic.com.

How to use it

  1. Start with the first days; nothing else is urgent in the same way.
  2. Order several certified copies of the death certificate.
  3. Work through the notifications and log each call with its reference number.
  4. Talk to the probate court or a lawyer about the estate steps.
  5. Print the log before each round of calls.

Start a record

Who to tell

Who to tell, and roughly whenThe first weekFuneral homeClose familyEmployerSocial SecurityThe first monthBanks and cardsLife insurersCredit bureausHealth insurerThe VA, for a veteranThe first monthsProbate courtMotor vehicle officeUtilitiesOnline accountsFinal tax returnsOrder several certified copies at the start: most of these will ask for one.Who to tell, and whenThe first weekFuneral homeClose familyEmployerSocial SecurityThe first monthBanks and cardsLife insurersCredit bureausHealth insurerThe VA, for a veteranThe first monthsProbate courtMotor vehicle officeUtilitiesOnline accountsFinal tax returns
A rough order, not a rulebook. Most of these ask for a certified copy of the death certificate.

Social Security and survivors

Funeral homes usually report a death to Social Security; ask yours. A surviving spouse or child may qualify for survivor benefits and a one-time death payment of $255. Any Social Security payment for the month of death or later has to be returned, so tell the bank as well.

Grief and the paperwork

None of this has to happen in a week, and it is fine to ask a sibling or friend to make some of the calls. If grief turns into thoughts of not wanting to live, call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, at any hour. In an emergency, call 911.

Sources

  1. Social Security Administration. What to do when someone dies and Survivors Benefits (ssa.gov).
  2. Federal Trade Commission. The Funeral Rule and Shopping for Funeral Services (consumer.ftc.gov).
  3. Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. Am I responsible for the debts of a relative who has died? (consumerfinance.gov).
  4. Internal Revenue Service. Deceased Taxpayers: Filing the Estate Income Tax Return, Form 1041 and File the final income tax returns of a deceased person (irs.gov).
  5. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Burial benefits and memorial items (va.gov).

The worked example is made up. Probate and estate rules are set by each state; this page describes federal steps in general and is not legal or tax advice. A probate court clerk or an estate lawyer can explain your state’s process. Nothing you type is sent to Caveat. Support: team@caveatacademic.com.